Family Matters: Are your actions consistent with what you say you believe?
My son Daniel is taking a worldview class at our homeschool co-op this year. Recently, his teacher tasked him with interviewing somebody whose view of the world differed substantially from his own.
For a 13-year-old boy living in the Bible belt whose primary circle of friends are his brothers and sisters plus friends from church and a Christian co-op, this assignment presented a bit of a challenge.
However, we do happen to have a dear family friend who is an atheist. She lives and works on the other side of the world, so Daniel sent the interview questions to her in an email.
And she graciously answered.
She believes God is a figment of our imagination, credits the formation of life as we know it to evolution, and denies there is anything special about humans. According to her, humans are nothing more than soulless animals “with an unusual propensity for cruelty.”
“Making others happy is the height of goodness;” she postulates, “making others unhappy is the height of evil.”
While her answers prompted a lot of discussion, they didn’t really surprise us. What did surprise us was how much of a disconnect there seems to be between what our friend says she believes and how she actually lives her life.
She claims humans are just animals, but is rightly appalled when they act that way.
She thinks it’s evil to make others unhappy, yet considers herself a good person despite the fact that her strongly held opinions make those who disagree with her bristle.
She defines reality as “what we experience with our five senses, what we’ve learned, and what our brains tell us.” Unless, of course, our experience, education, or personal convictions point to the existence of God, in which case it’s just a bunch of nonsense and isn’t real at all.
Noting the inconsistencies between our friend’s professed beliefs and her actual behavior prompted some self-reflection. Have I ever been guilty of the same thing? That’s a valid question for everyone to consider.
If I believe, as the Bible teaches, that mankind is made in the image of God, then I should treat others with dignity and respect in every interaction.
If I affirm that God is sovereign and trust Him to work all things together for the good of those who love Him, then I should never lose sleep worrying about my problems.
If I understand that God uses life’s trials to make me more like Christ, then I should bear up under hardships with patience and joy.
If I accept the fact that Christ’s death freed me from the power of sin, then I shouldn’t live as if I were still enslaved to my appetites and vices.
And if I’m convinced that hell is real and awaits the unrepentant, then my love and compassion for the lost should motivate me to point them to Jesus every chance I get.
Putting it into Practice
If you’ve never tried this exercise, I’d highly recommend it. Give some thought to your own most deeply held convictions. Then ask yourself: After observing my behavior, would people be surprised to learn I believe as I do? What affect does my worldview have – if any – on the way I conduct myself day to day?
Jennifer Flanders is a homeschool mom who tries to practice what she preaches (and she has lots of observant kids and grandkids to let her know when she falls short of this goal). To read more from her, please visit https://www.flandersfamily.info .